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Ba Ha Ha Happy!Ba Ha Ha Happy! Self Help Book By Robyna Smith-Keys

 I want endless amusement and laughter in my life, how about you?

To have a happy life, deep within our soul, we must first like our self, enjoy others warts and all, and constantly work at improving how we respond to others that are not always pleasant.

Two wrongs will never make a right.

The only person you can change is you.

Life is a mystery to be lived not a problem to be solved.

Endless amusement comes from being able to laugh at yourself.



Ba Ha Ha Happy! Self-help book.

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To feel marvellously alive is my constant goal. Will this book have you bursting at the sides with laughter?  Well, mmm, there are no jokes in the book. However, Ba Ha Ha Happy!-a guide to becoming marvellously alive, Is a powerful book packed with over 440 pages of affirmation, verses, self talk and inspiration. Each day as you recite out loud these inspired words from Ba Ha Ha Happy! Happy people know how to laugh. For he that can laugh at oneself will have endless amusement. You will strengthen your spirit and your life will overflow with peace of mind and the strength to conquer most adverse situations. Relinquishing responsibility for improvement “ which isn't easy and once we stop blaming outside forces for our misfortunes or predicaments, there is only one place to look: the mirror! . I searched for peace of mind within my church and did not find it. I prayed morning , noon and night to no avail. I changed churches and studied the bible. That did help a little but my true peace of mind came when I studied sales techniques. Sell to yourself first. The idea, of  happiness. Search for it, believe in it and design your life around total happiness. Take this book home today and start designing your marvellously happy life. These verses, affirmations and proverbs saved my life.  I feel marvellously alive every day and you can too.

As a child I had a major issue to conquer. My parents were fun loving, caring, attentive people, therefore, I was a happy child. Then I married and hell, introduced itself to me. I became an emotional nightmare an emotional cripple.  My parents had taught me positive thinking their way. Therefore,  it was not actually until, the sales techniques that I was taught at Rank Xerox and the sales seminars, they organized me to attend, that what my folks had taught me actually kicked in.. However, it was the reinforcing techniques of being great, that improved my state of mind.

 Rank Xerox taught me to agree to disagree, to speak out for myself, to debate issues and solve problems. When they decide to employ you, they send you for a full day of being psychologically tested. Yes I passed, God only knows how. My first discovery was everyone that I was working with had an amazing depth to their character. After working in   Hair and beauty salons for many years with emotional women, Xerox employees were enlightening, well balance, successful emotionally well balanced people. Don't get me wrong the hair and beauty industry is a very rewarding tactile enjoyable industry-loaded with people from all walks of life. However, Rank Xerox opened my world. My colleges, were a delight to spend time with. What a blessing they were to my life, they cured my confusion and encourage my mind to blossom. Zig Ziglar was on at the convention centre in Sydney. I won a front row seat. The seminar was on Cold calling. This wonderful man taught me far more, than how to sell my way to the top. He filled my mind with the importance of being marvelously alive. From that day onwards I have searched every verse known to man to find the affirmations, positive thinking and mind power books, I could lay my hands on.  Also my parents were very big on daily prayers and affirmations. Mum had a tin that she would shake at the dinner table. We would pass the tin around to each other and each family member would take out a verse and read it aloud. The verses in that tin are imbedded in all three of my minds. My conscious, subconscious and unconscious mind. But when hell introduces itself into your life  my father said.

"You made your bed now lay in it. You have chosen this  journey  against our wishes, now work through it. "

That's when I search for a balanced state of mind. I pray this book will help you end, your search and set you on the right path so you can head in the right direction. Let this book be your little tin on the dining room table. Let it be your Zig Ziglar awakening. Let it be the first day to a new way- of a more peaceful life. 

    Welcome! This page is dedicated to improving people’s lives through sharing effective communication skills.
    Effective communication is the human adhesive that holds our relationships together and it can be the very thing that tears us apart. – Robyna Smith-Keys

    Effective communication is complicated, complex and tricky. My hope is to show you that, whatever your age, it is possible to learn effective communication skills and have a more thorough understanding of what communication is all about.

  • If you are not feeling listened to,

  • If you are arguing and not getting anywhere,

  • If you are explaining your concerns and receiving no acknowledgement

  • If you are feeling overpowered, disappointed lost and lonely.

  • If your needs are not being met,

  • If you are compromising on anything,

  • If you are using punishments to get things done,

  • If you are being punished when you speak up,

  • If you are using rewards to get things done,

  • If you use gifts in place a humble apology,

  • If you ignore temper tantrums to keep the peace,

Then your communication skills are needing a different approach
Effective communication is the sending and receiving of messages, with an agreed to response and outcome.
Communication is the KEY to:-

  • cooperating with other people.

  • to understanding one another.

  • to resolve conflicts effectively.

  • to let others know what our needs are and how best to meet those needs.

  • to fewer conflicts.

  • to more self-confidence.

  • to listen to one another.

  • to mutual respect.

  • to less resistance and more cooperation.

  • to feeling safe to be yourself.

  • to everyone having more fun.

With the understanding that others are not responsible for the way we feel. A quirk / idiosyncrasy in their personality might not be something they can nor want to change. With that said the only person you can change is you. So first you need to learn how to be happy without the need or approval of others. Next how to communicate effectively.

I hope my book Ba Ha Ha Happy! will get you started with liking the most important person in your life, "you". How other people treat you comes from your display of empathy not sympathy. Simple acts of kindness must always include effective listening skills and taking the time to listen effectively coupled with effective questioning so you fully understand what and why the other person has spoken or yelled at you.

Best wishes Robyna. X

Index for Ba Ha Ha Happy

Heal yourself.

Power and Attraction

We Have Three Minds.

Mind Pictures.

Mind Body Soul Exercises

The Law Of Attraction

Essential Oils To Improve Your Mind.

Affirmations & Verses


Laugh Verse

Laughter Affirmation

Knowledge Verse

Affirmations For All Occasions

Affirmations For Anxiety

Affirmations For Anger

Prosperity Affirmation

Verses By Others

Toxic Parents

Self Control

Ageless Proverbs


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A Few Quotes From Ba Ha Ha Happy!

Life is a mystery to be lived not a problem to be solved.

Romantic Love Is Attracted By
What We Do
Not By How We Look
Do Special Things For Others
Now I See The Law Of Attraction Happen.
Robyna Keys-Smith

I am lovable and I am becoming more loveable every day.
I am loved and will be given expressions of love.
True love will be mine; forever more.

~~ *** ~~~

If Unconditional Love Isn't Your Option
Then There Is No Commitment

“I will accept the things I cannot change
And change the things I can”.
- Abraham Lincoln

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Dress Becomingly Every Day
Come What May
Speak Softly and Passionately
Watch Your Day Blossom Your Way.
- Robyna Smith-Keys

I will dress well every day
I will speak becomingly
I will not use slang.

~~~ *** ~~~

Lovingly At The Crack Of Dawn
Tidy Away
Then Do Something Special
For Someone Else
And Watch Love Come Your Way.

Today I will have a plan and work my plan.
Today I will be patient, tolerant, loving and kind.

~~~ * ~~~

Love Comes In Five Ways
Goes Out In Five Ways
But Only Comes To Stay
When You Deliver Five Ways.

I will give love in all ways, always to all I know.
I will not expect love
I will earn it.

~~~ * ~~~

A Page from the "Ba Ha Ha Happy!"


- By Dorothy Law Nolte

If a child lives with criticism,
he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
he learns to fight.
If a child lives with fear,
he learns to be apprehensive.
If a child lives with pity,
he learns to feel sorry for himself.
If a child lives with ridicule,
he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with jealousy,
he learns what envy is.
If a child lives with shame,
he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with encouragement,
he learns to be confident.
If a child lives with tolerance,
he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with praise,
he learns to be appreciative.
If a child lives with acceptance,
he learns to love.
If a child lives with approval,
he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with recognition,
he learns that it is good to have a goal.
If a child lives with sharing,
he learns about generosity.
If a child lives with honesty and fairness,
he learns what truth and justice are.
If a child lives with security,
he learns to have faith in himself and in those about him.
If a child lives with friendliness,
he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live.
If you live with serenity,
your child will live with peace of mind.
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With what is your child living?

Do you check this list created by By Dorothy Law Nolte; often and check your parenting skills!?
To have a happy household- children must obey their parents. But they do not understand why to obey is so important. How could they? They have not lived
 through their life yet. They need to live a life by design and consistent instruction by consistent parents. A disorderly, untidy, unorganized home is a dysfunctional  home. The more you do for your child the less capable the child will be. In my  next book "Are You A Toxic Parent" we will analyze this more. In the mean time learn to laugh with your children, tickle them, create strong boundaries, teach  them to help with chores, seek help for yourself and them. Send them to Church or Girl Guides, Boy Scouts or Sunday School. Do not over extend your self or  their activities. They need time with you more than they need to be running off to after school activates. Vacuuming and washing the car is exercise. The fun can be in how you do it together. You will always be a childs best toy and later their best friend. You must be their guiding light, their emotional balancer, their savour and most importantly, you must be on their side.

Dealing with toxic parents. Unfortunately, some parents are unreasonable. It
could  be due to their childhood experiences or the additions they took part
in as teenagers and a host of other reasons.
You cannot change who they are but you can change the way you deal with
 them. You need to leave the un-ravelling of their personality to a higher power.
This subject like most other emotional disorders could fill a book. Here I have
given a brief way for you to help yourself. I am assuming you are an adult
reading this book and you are doing so to be Ba Ha Ha Happy!